Jivanto V.
MyLife 24-7 Ambassador

We live in a world that lacks. It lacks things there could never be enough of, like tolerance. I believe that through tolerance, we can become a little more understanding of one another. We can love a little more, and hate a little less. Through tolerance, we can become a unified nation and world instead of one divided. I believe in tolerance.

However, tolerance is not enough. We must move towards acceptance. I believe that to accept one another is the only path to concord. To me, "tolerance" means, "I don't like you, but I feel obligated to be nice to you because it's the right thing to do. I cannot stand certain things about you and those things make me superior to you. But, to keep the peace, I will put up with you." The word “acceptance” elicits a very different and far more positive response. It seems to say, “You are different from me, and though there are things I may not understand, I see you as an equal. We may not be alike, but I support your rights, feelings, and identity as much as I would my own."

As human beings we cast judgment on one another the second we meet. We write people off for things as trivial as gender, race, and sexual preference. In order for us to become a united people, we need to throw aside these instantaneous conclusions. When we are tolerant of one another, our minds and hearts open and become ready to listen. Through listening, we can learn about the diversity of views in the world. Through knowledge, we gain wisdom, and through wisdom we can finally learn understanding and acceptance. I believe that those who display acceptance toward others will receive it in return. I try to exemplify tolerance and acceptance so other people will listen to my ideas and beliefs too.

In a world that is in a constant struggle because of our immense dissimilarities, I believe in acceptance. It may not solve global warming, but it could have very positive effects. Constant disapproval of people who are different from us doesn’t make life better for anyone. People we disagree with are still people, just like you and me. Regardless of whether we agree with every statement, all voices should have the opportunity to be heard. As Voltaire said, “I disapprove of what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it.”

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This piece was written in the style of “This I Believe,” an international project engaging people of all walks of life in writing, sharing, and discussing the core values that guide their daily lives. The project, which is featured on public radio, is based on the popular 1950s radio series of the same name hosted by Edward R. Murrow.

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